Thursday, May 20, 2010

Baby daddy?!?!

I finally got word today that R is in fact the girl's BF. I knew it. SR looks just like him. So now the judge has to establish him as the legal father, which may take place 6/24. Once that happens their aunt might be able to take them home. As you may remember R does not want them, he loves their BM and since her rights have been terminated they can not be in the same household. It's sad, I can't imagine choosing a boyfriend over my children but whatever....they will probably be better off with their aunt.

E (the sw) is calling me tomorrow to let me know if and when the girls will be transitioning to their aunts. As of right now, all we know is that they will definitely be here until the 24th....I'm starting to wrap my head around the fact that they will be leaving...:( I've had a couple good cries but for some reason it just doesn't feel real. Maybe because we don't know exactly when they are going to leave....

If I hear from E tomorrow, I'll post an update.

4 comments:

Lisa said...

I'm sorry...

Prabha said...

Hugs!

Laura said...

Dee: Just wanted you to know we've got *all* of you in our prayers.

xoxo,
Laura

Jenn and Joe said...

I didn't not see this until today. I am so sorry! That must be so hard. Breaks my heart just to read about it. My thoughts are with you!